X Why Explained

#20 Something weird is going on between us

Maybe, you’re the bloke who’s depressed. Maybe it’s a friend of yours. Maybe a work mate. There’s only one way out of the dark pit. Look up if you can and ask for help, or each and pull someone up. I’ve had so very low times but I cant say I’ve ever suffered depression, but I acknowledge it as a debilitating condition and as much as I can, I want t be a part f the solution. This is a worthy goal as a man. Why not make it yours?

19 Listen to the whole story before making up your mind

Even though, we all want it to be simple, life is complicated. And life is mostly about relationships, the good, the bad and the ugly. X Why Explained podcast is here to help and the first step to solving a problem is identifying it. Know your enemy. How many of you know you have enemies? Unseen enemies. Let’s get into it. I’m going to read a bit from my novel, Love Sick Love, then talk about some of the issues that come up.

#18 When I think of her, I’m not thinking about sex

Even though, we all want it to be simple, life is complicated. And life is mostly about relationships, the good, the bad and the ugly. X Why Explained podcast is here to help and the first step to solving a problem is identifying it. Know your enemy. How many of you know you have enemies? Unseen enemies. Let’s get into it. I’m going to read a bit from my novel, Love Sick Love, then talk about some of the issues that come up.

#17 If I Knew What She was Thinking

Author D.A.Cairns reads from his novel Love Sick Love and discusses some important issues relating to sex and relationships.

#16 A Hungry Unhappiness

G’day. My name’s David. Thanks for joining me. I’m going to read to you from my novel Love Sick Love, then I’m going to talk to you about some of the stuff that comes up. Love Sick Love is fiction. It is not a true story, but it could be. It could be your story.

#15 Opposites Attract

In each episode of X Why Explained author D.A. Cairns aims to bring truth and light to men in the arena of sex and relationships, bringing challenging insights designed to help healing and wholeness in this area of manhood which for many men is characterised by dysfunction, pain, and shame. If you’re a man who doesn’t understand his behaviour or a woman who doesn’t understand the behaviour of men, you’ve picked the right podcast. (30 seconds)

#14 Turning the lights on

Special Good Friday episode.
Usually, I read to you from my novel, Love Sick Love, but today I want to step back a bit and tell you a little of my story. Where did the novel come from? Where did this podcast come from? What’s underpinning it all? If you only ever listen to one episode of X Why Explained, make sure it’s this one.

#13 Too Much Time Alone

X Why Explained is a podcast which aims to bring truth, light, and understanding to men in the arena of sex and relationships. In each episode author D.A. Cairns will bring challenging insights designed to help bring healing and wholeness to this area of manhood which for many men is characterised by dysfunction, pain, and shame. If you’re a man who doesn’t understand his behaviour or a woman who doesn’t understand the behaviour of men, you’ve picked the right podcast.

#12 Two Years divorced and she still won't talk to me

Two years divorced and she still won’t talk to me.
I have accepted responsibility for what I did, but my ex has not. In her eyes, she is the perpetual victim and I am the everlasting villain.
It was fun while it lasted
If you like the kind of fun which is laced with anxiety and guilt. Call it fun if you like, but if you’ve had an affair, think about...was it really?

#11 You were married once, right?

X Why Explained is about turning the lights on, speaking truth, breaking addiction.